Morning by Morning…

The day started with a pre-dawn, wet-hair, icy windshield scramble because the dogs decided to take a joy run…

…and it ended with a post-sunset barn check after one of the minis decided to swallow the pointy shard of a popsicle stick.

And sandwiched in between was a truck full of errands, a missed trip to the feed store, an archery class, a trillion texts, the start of a new spelling program, two long phone calls, report cards x 4, a somewhat substantial owie…

…and Mama yelling loudly.

So when we got home…and we were all breathing steadily again, my little guy brings me this, his drawing:

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“…what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” (Micah 6:8)

It’ll probably be the same kind of busy tomorrow.

But this…

…this is what my Wednesday’s gonna be all about.

Especially Him…

Kate’s given me permission to share this piece with you. It made my heart beat fast. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. Do explore her blog when you can…she weaves words into tapestries that’ll have you holding your breath.

Be Stronger

Ohhmygosh…. Where to begin? Can I breathlessly sigh…maybe sit down here a while? I’ve missed here. This blog…this little corner.

Truthfully, I’ve just missed writing in general. It’s been too long. The book…the holidays…

Ten days into the new year and it still feels like Christmas. But it feels like March too. The days are long but the years are short. A wise mama other than me said that once when my babies were babies and it was YESS then but it’s yes now too.

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My goal, our family’s goal, in 2015 we decided, is simply To Be Stronger. Of course, there’s a secret Type A side of me that I keep hidden well and she likes to think on things a bit and then “expand”.

So our To Be Stronger aim became one of those bubble-and-line think sheets we all learned how to do in English back in 5th grade, and pretty soon our Be Stronger found itself smack in the middle of the page with branches of Emotional, Financial, Spiritual, Marital and Physical bubbles sprawled across the coffee-stained white in bold print with little baby bubbles of how-to dangling off of them.

And before my little boy handsome even knew about all these goals and bubbles his mama’d been working on, he stood up to pray in his kids’ church class. Which was a huge Be Stronger feat in itself because he hasn’t been to kids’ church class since last March when he abruptly decided with tears in his eyes that he wanted to hang with Mom and Dad and go to adult class or help them teach the little kids. Stuck like glue to his folks he is.

But we’ve been taking him and sitting with him since he was missing his kids’ class but just didn’t have enough strength to go by himself.

And at the end of class that day at the end of the year, he summoned every ounce of his little brown-haired boy courage and stood up at the closing when the teacher asked if anyone wanted to pray. He folded his chubby little man-hands and he squinted his eyes tight and he thanked the Lord for the day like his daddy always does…

…and he asked God if He would help us all to grow strong.

And my Mama heart bust open. He didn’t even know we’d been talking about that.

But isn’t that what we all need? To grow stronger?

Even when we don’t know we need it, we need it.

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And in 2014, our strength walked us through…

-helping our girl learn to walk her first year as a brand-new Christian
-two surgeries
-one cancer diagnosis
-one death in our family back home
-one rooster execution
-two goat rehomings
-four guinea pig deaths
-seven weeks of radiation treatment
-a barnyard reconfiguration
-raising, butchering and processessing a flock of 30 meat chickens
-another long weekend at the annual fair
-publishing a book
-a twenty-year marriage anniversary

A little less stressful than some years, a little more than others. Just a year.

I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength but sometimes you’re just walking your normal life and you don’t even realize your strength has waned some but there it is, the load that once felt stable now feels heavier and your muscles start to quiver some and all of a sudden…you just feel a little worn out.

So you slow down to rest a bit more. And rethink. Refresh. Refill. Rejuvenate. Reenergize. Regenerate.

To grow stronger.

Even a six-year old can see it.

Sometimes you need to slow the pace so you can take some deep breaths in…and let some deep breaths out.

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So ten days into this year…

…we sleep a little longer and don’t feel guilty.

…we pile up on the big bed most every night for devotionals and long family bedtime prayers.

…we cut back on all outside obligations, reorganized others to fit better, and only allow the calendar to hold things that are a) easy b) refreshing or c) bring great strength to us or those who need us.

…we read the Bible every day.

…we exercise for six minutes at the top of the hour on school days to refresh and strengthen.

…we cook fun new things out of a new cook book.

…we talk a bit more.

…we smile a bit more.

And hopefully, after all the days and all the weeks, we’ll get to the end of 2015 and we’ll be able to squint our eyes and clasp our hands and thank the LORD for the day…

…and celebrate being stronger.

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I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.
~Philippians 4:13

2014 in review

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Hands

Ever since the guinea pig died I’ve been thinking a lot about hands. Working hands. What kind of work our hands do, to be precise. My husband’s hands pet the soft hair of his baby daughter with her tears falling on his big shoulder as she says good bye to the little sick animal she’s loved for years. And then those same hands take a frail and fragile creature that breathes and they turn it into a still and lifeless form with no air left in its lungs. DECEMBER 2014 013 How many times has he been the one to do this? Oh, I could lose count. And on butchering day he is the one to do the killing part, and he teaches his boy to be a gentleman and do the killing part too… …because my soft mama hands are healing hands, not hurting hands he tells me. What about your hands? What kind of work do they do? What do I do with mine that sometimes look pretty but usually have dirt under nails that peel? Up until recently, they used to change diapers. And prepare bottles and pick noses and wash sheets. Today though, they tap out words. And comb hair. And pet horses. Help with schoolwork and fold clothes and read books. But mostly… …they just point the way. Today in church I thought of the smells in the stable because I know what it would’ve smelled like. When I think of a barn…my barn…my brain automatically makes the smell, and it’s hay and it’s wood and it’s cobwebs and manure and animals and life and earth. winter barn I might know the smell, but what I don’t know is who built the manger. Who wove the reeds or who cut the tree and if it was a tree, who chose the wood and who planed it soft so that it wouldn’t rip the lip of a feeding animal? Who made the joints and dovetailed it all together so it’d last long in the stable and not fall apart? My husband used his hands to make a trunk for me once. Took wood and tools and a brush and some stain and made it all into a box so simple and beautiful I love to just run my hand over its smooth sides. What does a man think of when he crafts a manger? His hands must’ve been sure and confident but he probably didn’t even have a thought that the box he was making would someday hold the most important baby ever born.26da7985851b8e3a1185e6866127a3a6a And what about the hands that took tools and a tree and worked just as hard some thirty-three years later? Were those hands rough and were they accurate and did the mind that made the hands move think of what he was making his hands do? How strong do your hands have to be to plane the pole that will bear the dead weight of the savior of the world as He hangs onto every sin ever committed?

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photo credit: the gospel coalition

Did a little sliver of that tree get stuck into a rough callous…a little stick, wedged tight and prickling under the skin of a knarled finger that helped craft the tool to crucify. How long does it take to make a bed for a king? How long does it take to carve an executioner’s tree? And what do those hands look like? My mind sees the task and my mind sees the tools and when my mind sees the hands, they are strong and they work hard and they all look the same.kit in Daddy's hands Hands that build good. And then those same looking hands…constructing for evil. What about yours? What are your hands building? We laid the guinea pig in the ground and my girl took her little nine-year old hands and she shoveled dirt and she tamped earth. And we all circled round and said something sweet. You get used to this dying when you live on a farm. That didn’t stop a tear from coming to her eye though. And when we walked away and started back to the house, she walked with her Daddy… ..and he held her hand.

E-Gremlins

My mama eagle eyes found an error in the ePUB file. Somehow, in production, an ebook gremlin got in and changed one itty bitty little word. The designers are stumped as to how it could happen since the file they send off is the perfect version book file and there is no process that occurs to change the actual text of the file.

The fancy computer folks might be scratching their heads and trying to talk programming and v-glitches and so on…but this mama can easily explain it.

LIFE IS MESSY.

And mistakes get made and things get switched and sometimes there’s just no good and plain reason for it.

So. For my gadget-eyed reader friends, that means that the official, ready-to-publish ebook won’t be ready until after Christmas at the earliest, New Years at the latest. I’m working on making it available for preorder on Amazon, but you know me, between my internet connection, the kids and the farm, -and this week, Christmas- things sometimes happen in fits and starts.

So sorry for the delay, it’ll happen soon though. While I wait on the people who are smarter than me to fix this…I plan on putting my feet up, making a pot of coco and snuggling my babies for the beautiful weekend set aside to celebrate the birth of our Savior. May His peace and joy rest on you and yours this weekend as well.

We love you. Merry Christmas from me to you.

Look Out E-World…Here We Come!

Big news on this little farm…

Our first short run of Annie Spruce is nearly sold out and we’ve had to throw ourselves at the mercy of the printer {{bribe them with cookies}} to try and get a second short run all the way up to our neck of the woods by our next book signing on December 20th. We’re currently in family negotioations as to what is the world’s best ever cookie recipe while we hang onto our BIG faith and confidence in the production team at our awesome print facility that they’ll have it done.

Bigger news that than though, is that while they are slaving away on our print project -and the many others that are operating under the holiday crunch- they are also preparing the E-BOOK ((Wooot!)) for Annie Spruce and are working hard to have it done by Christmas. Can I get a high five??

I’ve had SOOO many people ask me when I was going to put the book into digital form and then I’ve watched their eyes glaze over when I told them “soon” and gone on to explain how I wasn’t smart enough/patient enough/confident enough/time endowed enough/hairy enough to undergo such an undertaking. See? The whole thing just sounds so undertaker-y. Why would I want to go there myself when a little check and a few dozen cookies will do the trick? I get an eBook out of the deal, my head gets to keep its hair intact, and my readers get their precious little digi book. Many of my people -besties…mother…children…- love and adore their digital readers. I myself, remain a purist and have not yet crossed the techno threshold and will forever and always be a devout and loyal paper sniffer. I acknowledge the world has turned, alas, I try to turn with it. Albeit slowly.

Our expected release is Christmas.

{{Maybe Santa will put one of those Kindle gadget things in this paper snob’s stocking this year…}}

E-Book’s a’comin y’all!!

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Paparazzi

So tonight we had a little incident with the paparazzi.

While at the bonfire right after the parade a nice young man walked up to me and the kids with a big smile on his face.

I smiled back and when he said he was from the local newspaper and was wondering if he could talk to me…my smile got even bigger.

{{Think SPARKLE y’all.}}

He asked if I had a moment and of course I told him “Well, uh… okayyy”

{{I MAY have even flipped my hair a little but I’m not sure. MAYBE.}}

Seriously. How did he know about the book SO SOON?

I cleared my throat and prepared to answer some questions.

Then he turned to my kids and said he was here talking to people about the parade and the fireworks and since their mama said it was okay, he’d LOVE to ask them some questions.

{{Writer ego deflates quietly and oozes out the bottom of my boot…}}

He professionally takes out his recorder, asks us a few questions, smiles when I snort laugh and tell him I thought he was coming to talk to me about my book that just came out {{ha ha polite laugh “oh a book. that’s nice”}} and walks away to interview the next person about our little town’s fun tradition.

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Can you EVEN??

I crack myself up sometimes.

And then, in the middle of the fireworks that make us all feel like we’re eight again and that there are no troubles in the world except needing a hot cup of coco to make our life perfect, my little girl, my one who hides her true feelings deep down where I usually have to carefully excavate them, well she looks up at the jet black sky that is bursting with every color you ever thought of, and as the fire flowers dance in her eyes and her round cheeks glow pink, she randomly and casually says “I love you Mama”.

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And when we pull out, my other daughter holds my hand and the twin snake lines of red tail lights blink on and off with the stop and go cars and Kenny’s on the radio telling us what I already know.

The closest thing to Heaven is a child.

And this writer will take that over paparazzi any day.

 

Halfway Home

Most every day after morning chores and breakfast, I read to the kids around the table. We’ve come to simply call it our Table Time. Some of our biggest family conversations have happened during this time. We lay out our day, we discuss issues in the news, and we tackle major topics that come up from our daily Bible reading.

When we first started homeschooling, I’d read a devotional or a book about the Bible, and then a little bit from our current chapter book.

But in January 2012, I decided that I no longer wanted to read a devotional book, or a book about the Bible, so I dropped all devotionals and I began reading to them straight from the Word. I found a One Year chronological Bible in an easy-to-read version. It was a habit of mine to read the Bible straight through every couple of years in my own individual reading, but my children had never been through it from cover to cover, so I decided that winter that we’d take a year and do it together.

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And here we are, almost three years later and we are just coming onto the halfway point. Out of 1432 pages, we are on page 702.

I got over being discouraged at our slow pace about two years ago.

Because what has happened is this:

We talk long about what we just read. Over our oatmeal we talk about rape and incest and adultery and murder and hatred and insanity and all the ugly things that people do to one another. We talk about evil and Satan and why sometimes it’s hard to believe and why sometimes people might not. We talk about doubts and questions and commandments and sin.

And we talk about grace. And love. And paying a price so high that the only fee you could offer is your very life.

So we hit the halfway point this week at our Table Time and I realized something. Not only were we halfway through the pages in the book, we were halfway through the story too.

Because you see, we’re just hitting the point where God’s chosen folks are hauled off into exile by some very bad people. Big Meaners as my kids would call them.

God’s been telling them over and over and over to JUST BEHAVE. Love one another. Love ME.

But all those hundreds of years, they stray. Oh they SAY they love Him. They SAY they’ll do what He wants them to. They SAY they’ll obey. They SAY they’ll treat each other right.

But they don’t.

They kill and they rob and they worship the gods that are made of wood and they cut themselves thinking they need to please those gods and they commit adultery trying to please those gods and they offer up their children and burn them thinking they need to please those gods…

And those gods are silent.

But ours isn’t is He?

The One TRUE God, well He says I love you, but this has gone on too long, you can’t behave like that, like these folks who follow these false gods and now, there is going to be a consequence for your straying.

And that’s where we are in the story. The sad, sad time when the big fat meaners come and lay siege to Samaria, then, three years later, they walk the Israelites on out of their homes and into a foreign country to keep them as slaves.

It’s hard to read.

Except.

Except as I realize what page we are on, and how God so strategically placed THIS incident smack dab in the middle of the time table of the happenings of the Bible, I put my bookmark on our page and flip back to the beginning.

God had a plan. Way back when, He told us that His son was going to come and smash evil to the ground.

And then, about a quarter of the way through, He reminded us that even though all the groups of His people were straying, there would be One to come out of Judah that wouldn’t stray, and that He would go one further and show us all how to remain true.

And then, flipping on ahead, we see that that One really did come…that what God said was going to happen really did.

And then, flipping on up to the end, well, we know what happens.

Because we have the whole story. No matter how much we stray, no matter how much we tend to forget, no matter how many times we have to be reminded to come back, we’re not stuck at the halfway point.

This time-out in the middle won’t last forever.

And knowing that makes us look forward to the rest of the story. It makes us want to read on and keep on and press on… no matter how long it takes us.

It might take us a short time, or it might take us a long time, but when we belong to Him, we know the ending.

We’ll see Him at the beginning.

We’ll see Him at the middle.

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Gary Paulsen, Rick Riordan and Mom

My kids read.

A lot.

If you were to get my kids a gift card to the book store, or a pre-paid Nook account, or say, their very own hardback series of Rick Riodan’s work, they’d pretty much think you were an angel from Heaven.

My eight-year old has been hauling around Great Expectations.

Yeah, they’re those kind of kids.

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And they don’t mess around with junk. They can sniff out literature twaddle from a mile away and have z-e-r-o patience for it. They’ve brought me books from their Battle of the Books pile before, tossing it on the desk and rolling their eyes when I asked how it was. These are books chosen by our nation’s top librarians y’all.

If we wanted to label here, we could maybe go so far to say my kids are book snobs.

So when their mama’s book came in the mail this weekend, they naturally all wanted to grab a copy and go hole up and read it.

Now can I interject here that they’ve read the story already. Heck, they LIVED the story right? And as a family, we spent some time reading it aloud before it went off into the wilds of publication. They know this thing inside out.

But their very own copy of their very own Mama’s book?

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What young reader could resist that right?

So last night, from the dog pile of kids and parents and prayers, all snuggaboo on the big bed before tuck-in, I was surprised that instead of the normal good-night talk, my oldest started a conversation by saying “Mom I did something I never thought I’d be able to do.”

“Ohhh? What’s that?”

“I just took myself out of our story and read it like I’d never heard the story before.”

“Wow. You were able to do that?”

“Yeah. I didn’t think I would be able to, but I did and I read it like I wasn’t in it and you know what? It’s a really good story!”

My face flushed a little like the sweet bakers on Cupcake Wars when the stingy-to-compliment-them Florian says youhr buttuhr cweam fhrosting dahnced like a balluhreena eenn my mowth.

“Wow son. That means a lot coming from you.”

“No, really Mom.” The kid keeps going and I’m standing there like an eager freshman when the senior decides to talk to you in the hall. “It just read like a really great story, like one I’d normally read even if my mom didn’t write it.”

I’m beaming now I’m sure and all this praise from my cut and dry twelve-year old man child is going to my head so I push it one more and prepare myself for the letdown.

“How would you compare it to say….Gary Paulsen?”

Gary Paulsen is this kid’s all time favorite author. There isn’t a book Gary’s written that my kid hasn’t read, most of them at least three times.

I feel bad that I’ve maybe pushed him too far and have forced him to put his loyalties to the test.

“Actually Mom, it reads a lot like Gary Paulsen’s stories do. You write a lot like him. It kinda felt like I was reading one of his books.”

BE.STILL.MY.INSECURE.HAND-WRINGING.AUTHOR.HEART.

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My head spins a little and I steady myself with the help of the footboard and I’m sure I heard angels singing from just outside the door.

And as if that wasn’t enough to cement myself as an okay enough author, my daughter (also a true-blue-to-the-bone bona fide book snob) interjects, “Yeah. I think so too. Your book might not be quite as swashbuckling as some of his are, but they were a lot alike.”

I’m not sure what swashbuckling is, or how Gary does it, but to have two of my kids put me in the same league with a long-time bestseller whose work has graced our bookshelves for years has been the best review of my work I’ve ever had and I sit there beaming, glowing I’m sure, in the sincerity of their words.

These kids love this story. They love my writing and it kept them engaged and even if I wasn’t their mom, they’d pick it up and read it on through.

My artist’s heart is full up and my confidence is a little stronger and my author status is a little surer so that it doesn’t even hurt my feelings one iota when, before he heads off to bed, he looks at me imploringly and says, “But Mom? Please just don’t ask me to put it up against Rick Riordan. You won’t do that to me will you? Because I don’t think I could do that.”

Ha.

No son, I won’t.

It doesn’t even matter. Because tonight you’ve given me a little (a lot) of extra added confidence and you’ve confirmed what I’ve known all along.

That God gave us one heckofa beautiful story when He gave us this dog.

That you are a discerning and wise reader.

That you have great taste in literature.

And that you are lovingly…and loyally…dedicated and faithful to your favorite authors.

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